The questions we asked ourselves every day will shape our destiny

If you always ask yourself, “Why does this have to happen to me?” Guess what, your mind will search for the answers and tell you why you have such bad luck. 

Our minds work as to how and what we ask ourselves. Just like what Anthony Robbins said: 

“Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.” 

Do you know that Apple’s founder, Steve Jobs used to ask himself one powerful question each morning when he looked into the mirror? 

Every morning, Jobs asked this question: 

“If today were the last day of your life, would you want to be doing what you’re doing?” 

Jobs shared his experience of asking himself this question in a commencement speech at Stanford. He then went on to say, “Whenever the answer has been no for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.” 

Everyone knows what they want deep down in their hearts. The problem is whether they are going to accept and listen to their hearts. 

Try to ask yourself this, “Is this the work or job I enjoy doing?“ or perhaps "I am happy with how I soothe my pain by shopping / eating / drinking / watching dumb stuff / binge watching TV etc?

If you answer is a no, you know that you need to change. 

Sadly, most people never do anything to change their current situation because they are too afraid to change. 

The questions you ask will determine your focus. 

When you ask lousy questions, you will get lousy answers. When you ask empowering questions, you will get empowering answers that will drive you forward. 

If you have a task you need to do right now, and you ask, “Should I do this right now?” What answer will you get? 

Well, it depends on your willpower and state at that moment. 

If your willpower is strong at that moment, you will take action right away. If your willpower is low, there is a high chance you will procrastinate and do something else. 

Therefore, choose to ask a better question. Instead of asking, “Should I do this right now?”, ask yourself “What one small step can I do right now?” 

Get ready with a piece of paper and a pen; there’s some writing you need to do right now. 

Answer these 6 questions and write down your answers: 

1. Where will I be 3 years from now if I keep doing what I do now? 
2. Am I living the life I want right now? From these areas: physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually and financially. 
3. What is stopping me from changing and succeeding in life? 
4. If I can change my life right now, which one area I’m going to change and what one goal will impact my life the most? 
5. Where can I start and what one small step can I do right now? 

Remember, there is no right or wrong answer. You want to discover what you truly want in life and you want to find out what motivates you to change to change. 

So, just write down whatever answer you have in your mind. 

Answer the above 5 questions above by writing down the answers. 

If you are serious to change your life and you truly desire for success, you must do this right now because it gives you clarity on what you want and where you should change. 

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Passionately in freedom

Jules

Founder The 28 day RESET challenge